Change that negative attitude.

So many people are so used to whining and complaining that they forget the good things that happen in their lives and focus on the bad ones.

They say things like `things aren't going well for me, I don't have a job, my business is slow, customers are not coming, I keep failing at this, my children are so frustrating, my husband is so annoying, my parents are too poor to afford anything, I hate myself for being like this' and it goes on and on like that, they keep complaining that it now affects their everyday lives.

Normally, things won't go well for someone with a negative attitude because even when the good things happen he/she won't even realize it, even when its a blessing in disguise the person sees it as a bad thing and complains about it.
Good things happen to people with a positive attitude and your attitude is something you can choose regardless of circumstances. You cannot control how your life works and the things that happen in it but you can control how you feel about these things. You can choose to feel bad about them or feel good about them and instead of complaining profess words like this to yourself `This is a temporary situation, I can't be like this forever, I know this will change someday, I just need to stay focused'. See?  That is a positive attitude, that kind of a personality will have peace of mind and would not be bothered about anything because that person knows the situation won't last forever, he/she won't have mood swings or  experience depression.

Now, having a positive attitude towards things is not an easy job, especially for someone who has always been negative minded throughout out his/her life. A positive attitude can only come through with God, discipline and determination. Know that you have a creator who knows and sees all your needs and will make everything work in due time.
Discipline yourself. When negative thoughts come up in your mind, discipline yourself to push them away and think on positive things. Discipline yourself to have a positive attitude towards everything, whether good or bad.
Be determined. To have a positive life, you have to be determined to have a positive attitude. Some people might be wondering about why I said positive attitudes yield positive lives, imagine that you're in a place complaining and whining, getting angry and even using swear words and someone wants to hand a gift over to you. When the person sees you in that manner, the mindset of that person about you changes, the person might just change his/her mind and decide not to give you that gift anymore because you pushed him/her away by your attitude. Or maybe your boss is thinking of giving you an award for your service in the company and he sees you don't have a positive attitude, of course he'd give his award to someone better.
Don't allow your negative attitude to push good things away from you. Develop a positive attitude today.


Happy new year to everyone!!!!!!!!
So many people might have experienced a lot last year either good or bad, it doesn't matter, just make this year better than the last one. 
My apologies if I have not been so consistent, I'll make sure I do better this year.
Peace out!